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Imaju li "kronično nesretni" ljudi neke zajedničke karakteristike?

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Kad završi ljeto, otputuju turisti, dan se skrati...ostaje nam vremena da razmislimo, što to strance kod nas oduševljava, a nas, generalno, opet ne čini ispunjenima?

Kad završi ljeto, otputuju turisti, dan se skrati...ostaje nam vremena da razmislimo, što to strance kod nas oduševljava, a nas, generalno, opet ne čini ispunjenima?

Mogli bi reći da imamo mali milijun problema. Iako osjećamo zajedništvo na obiteljskoj i rodbinskoj razini vrlo nam je upitna društvena svijest, srozalo nam se povjerenje u ljude i institucije, nemamo financijsku ni pravnu sigurnost, pod terorom smo birokracije, materijalna su nam očekivanja velika, naglasak nam je na vanjskim stvarima (novac, status, imidž...), vlada međusobno nepovjerenje i nesigurnost, pritisak okoline je velik...ali što je najvažnije,  nikad se ne zadovoljavamo postignutim. Sve to i još mnogo toga čini da nismo u stanju prepoznati što zapravo imamo. A imamo.

Jesmo li nezahvalni?

Volimo biti na otvorenom, imamo obilje sunca i dobru klimu, jedinstveni smo u uživanju u kavi, još uvijek imamo vremena a i osjećaja za druge, znamo uživati u trenutku, otvoreni smo, gostoljubljivi, ne svodi nam se sve samo na posao, imamo besplatno školstvo i zdravstvo, zdravu domaću hranu, bogatu gastronomiju, običaje, tradiciju...

Jesmo li nezahvalni? Zašto osjećamo prazninu i kad imamo sve? Trčimo za svojim snovima,  a kada ih ostvarimo i dalje smo neispunjeni. Zašto uvijek želimo više, bolje, veće i nikada, zapravo, nismo ispunjeni onim što imamo? Zašto stalno živimo u iščekivanju i raskoraku iako znamo da zahvalni ljudi žive sretnije i zdravije?
Nerijetko imamo jednu teoriju o time što nam je u životu važno, ali u praksi pokazujemo nešto sasvim drugo.

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Svi imamo loše i dane i tjedne, zapravo, osciliramo između sretan i nesretan. Ali oni „kronično nesretni“ kao da imaju do savršenstva istrenirane neke karakteristike i obrasce ponašanja.

Unaprijed imaju stav da je život težak i da su žrtve života pa nikad nisu zadovoljni. Ustrajno misle da se ljudima ne može vjerovati. Nepovjerljivi su i stvaraju nevidljivi zid oko sebe. Fokusiraju se na ono što ne valja. Uvijek se žale na nešto a pohvalu nastavljaju s „da, ali...“. Uspoređuju se s drugima i gaje zavist. Kao da vjeruju da tuđa sreća nekako umanjuje njihovu. Stalno se uspoređuju s drugima a to vodi prema zavisti i ljutnji. Nastoje u potpunosti kontrolirati život. O budućnosti razmišljaju s brigom i strahom. Razgovori im se uglavnom svode na tračanje i gunđanje. Vrlo često zamjeraju, prijateljima, članovima obitelji čak i potpunim strancima.

Vječni pesimisti

Kao takvi, nezadovoljni su, ljuti i frustrirani i to utječe na svaki aspekt njihovog života, naravno u negativnom smislu. Vjeruju da su samo oni u pravu i da se svatko mora ponašati prema njihovim uvjerenjima. Često se postavljaju kao suci. Otežavaju si život u svim aspektima. Vječni su pesimisti i stalno čekaju bolju budućnost. Prigovaraju i kukaju i preuveličavaju loše stvari. Zapravo sami sebe teroriziraju a najvjerojatnije bez pravog razloga.

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Kako idemo kroz život trebali bi imati što manje iluzija, predrasuda, uspoređivanja, natjecanja, ega, nesigurnosti  i opterećivanja nebitnim stvarima. Prihvatiti i zavoljeti prvo sebe i onda sve oko sebe. Otpustiti ogorčenost i mentalitet žrtve, maknuti od sebe tuđa očekivanja, ne zamjerati i biti zahvalan, znati se i nasmijati samom sebi. Voljeti sebe i poštovati druge i živjeti svoju životnu strast.

Tekst: Lidija Kovačić, prof., Služba za javno zdravstvo i promicanje zdravlja Nastavnog zavoda za javno zdravstvo Splitsko-dalmatinske županije

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http://ordinacija.vecernji.hr/budi-sretan/upoznaj-sebe/imaju-li-kronicno-nesretni-ljudi-neke-zajednicke-karakteristike/

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  • 27.09.2020. 13:33h

    Član emilio-iiMerlin0

    "Na vrhu je odraz dna" = "Angel of death own this world" !?

    Kada neki i kazuje da "znanstvena zajednica" je kao "šaptom pala/za'kazala" ?

    To bi značilo da "znanstvenici" možda i jesu čitali Rumija ali i nije došlo do Čistog razumijevanja i Logičkih konsekvenci !

    *♦Tvoja je sitna sobost mati svih idola: tvarni je idol puka zmija, ali duhovni idol sobosti pravi je zmaj. Lako je razbiti tvarni idol, vrlo lako; a ludost je misliti da je jednako lako upokoriti sobost. Oh sine, želiš li znati kako sobost izgleda, čitaj opis pakla s njegovih sedam dveri. Svakoga trenutka sobost obavlja čin prijevarni; a u svakoj od prijevara utapa se na stotine faraona i njihovih vojski. *

    ???

    **♦Što to znači saznati Božju jednotu? To znači, razoriti sebe u nazočnosti Jednoga. Želiš li sjati kao podnevno sunce, spali mrak samopostojanja. Rastopi se u Biću Onoga, tko je Svedržitelj. Čvrsto si se držao za "ja" i "mi", i to dvojstvo tvoja je duhovna propast.
    ♦Oni koji niječu Boga nalik su čovjeku koji se odriče svjetlosti sunca i mjeseca, da bi zarinuo glavu u pijesak i pitao: "Ako je duh Božji nazočan u prirodi, gdje je onda njegova svjetlost?"

    ♦Božji je naum za čovjeka da stekne oko koje vidi, i srce koje razumije.
    ♦Sve osim ljubavi najdivnijega Boga pa makar prijalo kao zalogaji slastice, uistinu je umiranje duha. Što to znači, umiranje duha? To znači koračati prema tjelesnoj smrti, i ne piti Vodu života.**

    Jedan i si-logizam a u svijetlu i porasta broja požara u Svijetu bi bio:Vatrogasci su ustvari Piromani jer bi se inače zvali Vodonosci ??

    A lijek za "krono'logiju" bi bio u "BezVremenom" ?!

  • 27.09.2020. 16:01h

    Član emilio-iiMerlin0

    Naprimjer kada "Lionel" ima i "nisko težište" ali je i "Messi-Ja" !?

    To znači da je on i nešto brži u "urođenoj osiječajnosti-biološkoj interpretaciji -socijalnoj saglasnosti" ?

    Istina je da "u laži su krače noge" !

    Ali je Istina također i da onaj koji Vidi više ne može i lagati ili i samoga Sebe ??

    "Re-i'think'g".... je kao ???

    A "vrijeme" je "novac" baš kao što i "riječi" nas "oblikuju" ??

    *Kad god unutrašnji dijalog prestane,svijet se ruši,a čudni djelići nas izbijaju na površinu,kao da su ih naše riječi čuvale pod jakom stražom.*

    I na to je "Pejovićka" pokušala pa i u "minici" ukazati "Bulju" ?!

  • 27.09.2020. 16:38h

    Član emilio-iiMerlin0

    Znači "Burmudska" je i "Vlažna" a "Egipatske" su "Suhe" ?

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9qfJmvaWNi0

    Zajednička im je ipak "Kraljeva i Kraljičina Odaja" !?

    *The Legend of the Warrior in Love One of the assistants was in love with a girl from the city and was very troubled. He had reached the crossroads where he had to choose between the family life and the way of the healers. Doña Silvia took the opportunity to instruct us with one of her stories. In the evening she asked don Melchor to tell us the true story of Popo and Ixta. He began in the storyteller’s manner just like doña Silvia: "The story of the warrior and his beloved is well known in Mexican culture. It is immortalized in the form of Popocatepetl and Ixtlacihuatl, two huge volcanoes that are visible even from Mexico City on a clear day. What is less well known, however, is the interpretation we, the healers, give to this legend," said don Melchor with a malicious expression, moving his eyebrows up and down in an undulating fashion. His buffoonery gave a great boost to the assistants’ interest in his story. Moments like that make one appreciate the flair with which sorcerers adapt any situation to their purpose. Don Melchor went on: "This story goes back to antiquity; they say it goes ‘back to Ameca’ as that town was called in those days. Today it is called Amecameca, or ‘the other Ameca’, because the new town was built on top of the previous one after it was destroyed by a volcanic eruption. In those days before the eruption, when people still called it Ameca, there lived in that area a great healer who had close contact with the spirit of the mountain. They say that the sorcerer had made an agreement with the entity of the mountain, and as planned, gave light – so to speak – to a virgin inside a cave. There, it is said, the spirit of the mountain took possession of her newborn baby, and thus emerged the warrior Popocatepetl. Many tales are told of the adventures of that warrior. The best known one is that of his love for a beautiful princess of an enemy people, love that was obviously impossible. According to popular history, the lovers decided to elope together and fled but were pursued. Having no other choice, they climbed to the top of the mountain and threw themselves into the void. But they never touched the ground: they became two birds and flew away together towards the horizon. The healers’ version, however, says that Popocatepetl was fathered by a great healer and according to their story, wanted to follow in his father's footsteps. He had felt the healer’s vocation since childhood, and had in fact faithfully followed all the steps on the warrior’s path. He was about to become a sorcerer like his father, but as fate would have it, Popo went to the town’s annual festival where he met the lovely Ixtlacihuatl for whom he instantly developed an ardent passion. The young lovers forgot the world and gave themselves over to their love. As they both lived in that area, they wandered together through beautiful forests surrounding the mountains. Stories past and present tell of how dangerous certain places are in those mountains. Old people say that no one should climb up to or enter the caves there, for they are the abode of spirits. Legend has it that during one of their strolls the young couple went to the mountains and got lured away by the spirits that inhabited the place. That day the lovers climbed the steep slopes and were never heard of again. Some believe they met an ordinary death in the ravines or were lost in the maze of caves. Others believe they passed into the other world through an opening that from time to time naturally appears in the area. The point is that this story shows how easy it is to stray from the path. It is very easy indeed to give in to your feelings and be engulfed by the everyday world. To be a warrior, one must have unbending intent." As he spoke the words, don Melchor stared at the fellow who was suffering because of the same problem. The man lowered his head to escape his withering look. After a moment of awkward silence don Melchor continued:
    “Well, and as for the lovers who had entered the cave and tried to make the crossing, they might even have made it. But that manoeuvre requires even more energy, since it involves leaping from our world to the other world 'cold', to put it this way. Without proper preparation, that kind of leap usually means death.” One of the assistants asked if it was true that there were or still are places like that. Don Melchor retorted: "Well, look here at little godfather[17] Manuel. He’s already been in the wolf’s mouth but has managed to return intact. Isn’t it true, godfather?" "It is true, godfather,” Don Manuel replied. “Many years ago, in my youth, I went to those caves with two companions. We camped at that location and waited for three days until the wolf’s mouth opened. That is what we call the door to the other world. It was midnight, and we believed ourselves sufficiently trained, but, upon entering, each of us was sucked into the void. I managed to escape at the last moment because I realised that I would not survive the test and, gathering all my strength, jumped backwards, but my two companions who had entered ahead of me were lost. We never found out if they managed to survive, or if they disintegrated under the tremendous pressure. My benefactor was furious because of our audacity and disobedience.” Shaking his head, Don Manuel concluded: "There are also those who believe that the secret to passing through that doorway lies in the love shared by a couple, and only as a couple is it possible to pass through to the other world, as was the case with Popo and Ixta.”* ???

    Svašta...... tojest i ako barem ne vijerujemo u "To" onda nemamo ništa ??

  • 28.09.2020. 00:33h

    Član iridaMerlin30

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